Ungatarisira sei kusvika pa “hongu” munhaurirano kana usati wasvika “hongu” newe pachenyu musati mataurirana?Kuti "hongu" kwauri netsitsi kunofanirwa kuuya usati wataurirana nevatengi.
Heano matipi matanhatu anokubatsira kuti nhaurirano yako itange yakanaka:
- Zviise iwe pachako.Usati wataurirana nemumwe munhu, ziva kuti chiiiwechinodiwa - zvaunoda zvakadzama uye zvaunokoshesa.Kuzviziva pachako kunogona kukubatsira kuti urambe wakatarisa pane zvingashanda kune wese munhu.Paunonyanya kuziva nezvezvaunofarira, ndipo paunowedzera kuunza sarudzo dzekugadzira dzinosangana nezvinodiwa nemunhu wese.
- Gadzira yako yemukati "Yakanakisa Alternative kune Chibvumirano Chibvumirano" (kana BATNA).Haugoni kudzora zvinoitika kwauri nguva dzose, asi unogona kusarudza kuti woita sei.Chipingamupinyi chikuru pakuwana zvatinoda chaizvo muupenyu harisi rimwe bato.Chipingamupinyi chikuru ndechedu.Tinopinda munzira yedu.Tora maonero ari kure kuti akubatsire kuita sarudzo wakadzikama uye zvakajeka.Usaita zvekumhanya.Kana iwe uchinzwa manzwiro pamberi, panguva uye mushure chero dambudziko rekuramba, tora chinguva uye uone mamiriro acho ari kure.
- Dzokorora mufananidzo wako.Vaya vanoona nyika “seinovenga” vachabata vamwe sevavengi.Avo vanotenda kuti nyika ine hushamwari vane mukana kune vamwe vakuru sevanogona kufambidzana.Paunotaurirana, unogona kusarudza kuona mukana wekugadzirisa dambudziko nekubatana nemumwe, kana iwe unogona kusarudza kuona kukunda-kana-kurasikirwa nehondo.Sarudza kuita kuti kudyidzana kwako kuve kwakanaka.Kupomera vamwe kunopa simba uye zvinoita kuti zvinyanye kuoma kusvika pakuhwina-kuhwina mhedziso.Tsvaga nzira dzekushandira pamwe nemamwe mapato.
- Gara munzvimbo.Kuisa pfungwa pane zvazvino kunoda kurega zvakaitika kare, kusanganisira zvakaitika zvakashata.Chirega kufunganya nezvezvakaitika kare.Chigumbu chinobvisa pfungwa dzako pane zvinonyanya kukosha.Zvakapfuura ndezvekare.Kuenderera mberi kune zvakanakira munhu wese.
- Ratidza ruremekedzo kunyange usina kubatwa nacho.Kana mhandu yako ichishandisa mazwi makukutu, edza kugara wakadzikama uye neruremekedzo, uine moyo murefu uye uchishingirira.Funga nezvemamiriro acho ezvinhu uye ona chaunoda chaizvo uye kuti ungazvidzora sei kuti ugutse zvaunoda.
- Tsvaga kuwanana.Kana iwe nevaunobata navo nhaurirano muchitsvaga “kuhwina-kuhwina” mamiriro, unobva pa “kutora uchipa.”Kutora zvinoreva kuisa pfungwa pane zvaunoda chete.Paunopa, unogadzira kukosha kune vamwe.Kupa hazvirevi kurasikirwa.
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Nguva yekutumira: Oct-20-2021
