Vamwe vatengesi vanotsvaga nzira yekubuda mushure mekunge tarisiro yati "kwete" kukuedza kwekutanga kwekuvhara.Vamwe vanotora mhinduro isina kunaka ivo pachavo vosundira kuidzosera kumashure.Mune mamwe mazwi, vanochinja kubva pakuva vatengesi vanobatsira kuenda kune vakatsunga vanopikisa, vachisimudza danho rekupikisa retariro.

Heano matipi manomwe ekukubatsira kuti kutengesa kudzokere pagwara:

1. Nyatsoteererakuwana mibvunzo yese uye zvinonetsa zvinomisa tarisiro kuti "hongu."Vakateerera mharidzo yako, uye iye zvino vari kuita mharidzo-duku vachipindura.Vape mukana wekutaura zvavanoda.Vanogona kunzwa zviri nani kuti pfungwa dzavo dzibude pachena - kunyanya kana vachitenda kuti uri kuteerera.Iwe unozodzidza zvakawanda nezve chii chiri kuvamisa kutora danho rekukasika.
2. Dzokorora mibvunzo yavo nezvavari kuvanetsaasati apindura.Mafungiro haaiti nguva dzose zvaanoreva.Kudzokorora kunovabvumira kunzwa mazwi avo pachavo.Mune zvimwe zviitiko, apo vanotarisira vanonzwa chiri kuvadzivisa, vangapindura zvinovanetsa vamene.
3. Wana chibvumirano.Kana iwe uchibvumirana netarisiro pane chimwe chikamu chezvirambidzo zvake, iwe unogadzira mamiriro ezvinhu umo iwe unogona kufumura nzvimbo dziri kuchengetedza kutengesa.Yese nyaya yaunokurukura panguva ino yekutengesa inogona kutungamira tarisiro pedyo ne "hongu."
4. Simbisa kuti tarisiro yataura zvese zvinovanetsa.Ibasa rako kunyengetedza vanotarisira kuti vatore matanho nekukasika.Saka unganidza zvese zvinokunetsa iwe usati watanga kupa mhinduro.Uku hakusi kubvunzurudza.Iwe ndiwe anotarisira mazano uye unoda kumubatsira kuti asvike pakuita sarudzo ine ruzivo.
5. Bvunza tarisiro kuti iite chiito nokukurumidza.Dzimwe tarisiro dzinoita zvisarudzo nokukurumidza uye zvakadzikama.Vamwe vanorwisana nemaitiro.Pese paunopedza kupindura mibvunzo uye zvinokunetsa, gara uchipedzisa nekubvunza tarisiro yekutora danho nekukurumidza.
6. Iva wakagadzirira kupa kurudziro yakawanda.Unoitei kana wapindura mibvunzo yese uye zvinokunetsa, ukabvunza tarisiro yekuita sarudzo, uye iye anoramba akanyarara?Kana tarisiro isingabvumirani nemhinduro yaunopa kana kusimudza chimwe chinonetsa, gadzirisa. 
7. Vhara kutengesa nhasi.Kwete svondo rinouya kana mwedzi unouya.Chii chaunofanira kuita kuti uvhare kutengesa nhasi?Wakapa nguva yako nesimba kuti usangane netarisiro.Iwe wakabvunza mubvunzo wese uye wapa chirevo chese chinodiwa kuti munhu aite sarudzo yakadzidza.Isa simba rimwechete mukugadzira zvitatimende/mibvunzo yako yekuvhara sezvawakaita mukugadzirira imwe mharidzo yako, uye uchanzwa “hongu” kakawanda.

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